How Can We Get Over The Sexual Violence?

Jul 30, 2019

Today I was reading the definition of rape. Rape is a type of sexual assault, usually involving sexual intercourse or other forms of sexual penetration carried out against a person without that person’s consent.

The act may be carried out by physical force, coercion, abuse of authority, or against a person who is incapable of giving valid consent, such as one who is unconscious, incapacitated, has an intellectual disability, or is below the legal age of consent. The term rape is sometimes used interchangeably with the term sexual assault.

I developed a method to have hints about the questions popping in my head, but you have to have a 5 letter word for it to work and use free association. The details of the method are for subscribers only.

Anyway, using this method, here is what I found about sexual violence. Of course, I’m also using my musical culture, which is the basis of that blog.

What Do You Expect From A Man And Woman?

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Today I chose this song because, in French, the lyrics are “chabadabada.” It means when a man and woman are together, there is a special kind of magic in the air. From a psychotropic perspective (i.e., a direction to the brain which is in charge of accounting), you should expect miracles like +200,000$ in your bank account or maybe a deep relaxation meaning you expect to be able to take up any challenge.

Lately, I was talking with a life coach, and she said 2 crucial words: accountability and expectations.

The magic when you experience love with a person from the opposite sex is extraordinary. That’s because you’re answering questions about the perception of time and immortality. Until we’re sure of the scene of the crime.

But there’s also a legal point of view: if both of you have the permit, then yes, you can expect “chabadabada.” Otherwise, prepare for a few nightmares with your “high.”

2 Dangers When A Man Meets A Woman.

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Yes, what’s important in a relationship are legitimate expectations. But there are 2 dangers that I’m unsure of with sexual violence:

  • insults meaning it could be a matter of a gross indignity,
  • alienation meaning you could have a bad, bad feeling.

That one I’m not sure of even though this is common sense. Spending your life with insults and alienation can be exhausting, and yet it can happen to the best of us.

As a reminder, I have a method to deal with alienation. You have to increase your speed and motivation, and you should reduce gravity and pressure (watch out for weird allusions).

An insult usually happens because of context. Take, for example, 4 years ago, when I was working hard to find a code for a better humanity, and suddenly, I was insulted: “fuckin’ Lebanese.” Those Frenchman just wanted to save their skin. In the end, if it’s a matter of dignity, it’s a debt problem.

Why There Are No More Public Couples.

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Yes, you know it: you could reach nirvana or “chabadabada.” But rest assured that people will be jealous. And that’s why the chabadabadaine substance is prohibited. It’s a bottomless relaxation brew that could make you a great president of the republic. Of course, you will become a terrorist for people in power.

“Chabadabada” could mean a simple thing: you will always find a solution to your problem. If you analyze the song, you experience good and bad things, but you end up with a gorgeous relaxation moment.

So I’m going to reveal to you what can be the problem in your life (if you feel down and out): your banker friend has played a game on you, and you’re lost with Jesus.

Let Lebanon Remind You How It Should Be.

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You can’t spend your life idealizing your neighbor, your partner, your dog, or the burger joint you like so much. You can only idealize our universe: our oasis are indeed separated by vast areas of corruption. But Lebanon and its nature, its people, its history can be the cure.

Lebanon’s princesses managed to give their names to a continent. Europe is THE continent like black is THE color. The jungle allows you to live a few happy moments like your loved ones that come to the airport to welcome you.

Solidarity is, of course, of extreme importance when you have to face extreme conditions. And I guess that’s the case since we are born. We might as well find new and creative ways to deal with our questions and find a relevant answer.

My method called 5to1 is formal: when you have to deal with extreme conditions, you need an elixir. An elixir is a clear, sweet-flavored liquid used for medical purposes, to be taken orally and intended to cure one’s illness. When used as a pharmaceutical preparation, an elixir contains at least one active ingredient designed to be taken orally.

The active ingredient to get over this sexual violence is, of course, expectations. Watch out for dignity and this bad, bad feeling that’s a burden.

Nicolas Sursock

Nicolas is a musician. His work now focuses on digesting 10000 songs of jazz, blues, soul, rock, funk and electronic. He plays the guitar if he's not blogging!