What Happens When You Experience Love?

Jul 05, 2019

Today I want to write about love. There is one thing that love shouldn’t do and it’s very simple: it shouldn’t bring you to your knees. Love’s symptoms are very specific: you can’t eat and you can’t sleep.

But love can also be a wonderful stimulant or psychotropic substance: just make sure it gives you a direction that allows you to stay on the road. Who will be able to predict the future correctly? Can we construct a road while we are driving the recently built part?

Yes love is nice when it allows you to stay on the road: I see trees of green and red roses too. I see seasons: today I realise I’m not ready for the summer because I’m working full time on this music blog.

I felt much more comfortable during winter, hiding my extra pounds behind my clothes. And it’s true I have some kind of pornograffiti on the skin.

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What Kind Of Love Should You Look For?

I guess if love is like a substance, one should not abuse it. Also it should allow you to stay on the road. As a result, if you want to fall in love, and I know a lot of people do, the first thing you should do is try to see far, far away.

The only kind of love that’s worth experiencing is the one that allow you to drive safely and arrive at your destination. If life’s a journey it might also be a destination. I will be home tonight.

Seeing far, far away might be the key to fall in love and that might be why I wasn’t able to fall in love again. All I see turns to brown and psychotherapy. It’s incredible sometimes how people mistake you for their doctor. A friend will come and tell you everything about him/her.

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Why Love Can Hurt Sometimes?

This lesson was from my swimming instructor: you’re too intense, you won’t last long! It’s true we wonder sometimes how long love will last. So if you want to have a lasting love affair, make sure to check the intensity of your feelings.

What good is a love affair when one of you can’t sleep or can’t eat and is in too deep? You’re looking for a love that needs to last. According to the emotion wheel I found on the internet, you can classify the intensity of feelings with 3 levels.

For example, one could experience pensiveness, sadness or grief based on the intensity of their feelings. At the moment, the feelings I’m experiencing are mixed with some intense experiences like early puberty, first love affairs and a chemotherapy. I also am kind of thunderstruck because I do wonder who will help me make that blog a success.

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Are There Some Rules In Love?

As in all things, if you want to stay in the money, there are things you shouldn’t do. For example, crashing your car in a tree just for fun is not a good idea. Or if you want to set your guitar on fire in the middle of a concert should be done the less possible.

Yes there is a price you have to pay for love. And most of the time it’s not cheap. That’s why today you can seldom witness couples in the street. That’s also why you can witness strange things like the porn industry taking advantage of the price of love.

I know some people want to explore love and how you could die for the first ones. But it comes at a hard, hard price. We’re all riders on this train. It seems talking is the way out of here.

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How Do You Know When It’s Love?

As a conclusion, there are 2 basic things we should remember about love: it lasts a long time and it’s not something you feel alone. At least, that’s the point of view of Van Halen and their few good songs make me wonder if they’re not right on this one.

At the moment, there’s a kind of loneliness who won’t leave me alone: who will be able to understand me when I’m still thinking about the chemotherapy I did at age 17? And who will be able to understand me when I was the witness at age 14 of a strange possible rape scene?

The only thing I can communicate on is my love for music and driving; I can also communicate on having a business and the keys to success and failure. Will a standard of performance get us out of here? Who can make a realistic SWOT analysis of a love affair?

Nicolas Sursock

Nicolas is a musician. His work now focuses on digesting 10000 songs of jazz, blues, soul, rock, funk and electronic. He plays the guitar if he's not blogging!